Look

I am the kind of person who could really hurt you with a look. Probably you realize it better than anybody else and it is why you always prefer the cold, non-involved 2.0 ways of conversation.

But while you was struggling with your limited emotional intelligence and existential cowardise, somebody else successfully played its chances. And now, I am the one who wholeheartedly avoids you. For the rest of my life.

Talk

Ari Folman, in an older interview for the New York Times, was asked:

"Do you find that talk is...effective in war and diplomacy?". His answer: "Talk don't shoot. Talk".